No More Sweet Nothings!

Rhonda Byrne defines "Law of attraction"
As a law which determines the complete order of the universe and of our personal lives through the process of "like attracts like".
It's contrary to what we have been taught through school and college that "opposite attracts".


But this does not apply in personal space.
Because if you do not like somebody or find someone in juxtaposition to you, you are bound to repel them.


And vise-versa.


What made me talk about this is, I recently stopped talking to someone who has been very near to me for a year or two maybe.


But now.


We don't talk anymore.


Yeah its me.
Go on judge me.

She cease to exist for me.


Just like that.


It's something she has said and done.
Which I never expected from her.


Or to put it in other words.
She turns out to be a completely different person than I thought her to be.


It pierced through me like a dagger.


And bam!


I decided to shoo away the negativity.


I stopped talking to her.


And she sits next to me.


Every single day.


And we don't even exchange pleasantries.


I learned she try to fix it.


But hey!
THE HEART WANT WHAT IT WANTS!


No more sweet nothings.


P.S. : My friend told me this how the great love stories start.

Boiled Eggs and Land for Hospital.

What do you do when you get home after work?

Relax.

Watch TV.

Eat.

Pray.

Chat with a friend.

No, not after 27 and unmarried.
Yes its twenty fucking seven.

Gosh!!!

You can not do any of the above.
Since, sole motto of your existence on earth is...

1. To select a suitable partner for yourself (from whoever the fuck has made a profile on some matrimonial site).

2. Get married asap and

3. Then have kids asap and then

4. Get them married too asap.

It does not end here.

5. Force them to repeat the cycle.

Ricochet

“The world is not a wish-granting factory.” 

After 27 comes the age of pre middle age crisis.

You are done with college.

Got a decent job.

Decent Savings.

Frolic with friends.

What's left is...

Marriage.

Than comes the question.


Arrange or Love.


Than I feel too old to again fall in love.

And too young too get married.


After much of deliberation arrange seems to be the sole option left.


Bigger question is when??


When is the time right for it?

Now

Or

One year hence, two years maybe

Or.

Let me get settled down first.

Or.

Let me buy a home.

Or.

Let me buy a bigger car.

Or.

Let me have some more savings.  

Or.

Let me have a one more bachelor holiday.